The transcript below is from the interview with Dr. Daniela Roher.
Video Transcript
Now, we we?re talking about divorce and everything else earlier.? The age group in this country, the age group where there is the highest increase in divorces.? You may be surprised, it?s couples in their 50?s and in their 60?s.? It?s called gray divorces, gray, from gray hair.? That?s the highest percentage, the highest increase in divorces. So people have been together 20 years, 30 years.
They know each other well.? The kids are gone.? All of a sudden they feel, ?Oh gee.? Is that all there is in life?? And then they reconnect with a, say, high school sweetheart through Facebook or whatever or reunion.? They reconnect with this person.? And all of a sudden they get excited again.? They feel young again.? This relationship takes them back to a time when life was wonderful.
Future was in front of them instead of looking at, ?I?m getting old,? and whatever.? ?There are certain things that I can no longer do.?? And so all of that is very exciting but it?s a way of not really staying in touch with reality, because that?s a fantasy.? And all new relationships are fantasies at the beginning because we project on to that person everything we want to see in that person.? So when you?re in love with somebody, that person is the best, always, right?
We minimize the negative and maximize and focus on the positive because our feelings distort our perception of that person.? Now there are may be times when people are in very unhappy relationships, very unhappy marriages.? They find another person who is absolutely responding and connecting with them for who they are right now.
And may be that relationship is going to be a good relationship for them but remember I told you the statistics, they are very low.? Very, very few of these relationships will turn out into healthy, long term relationships.
To access the complete interview, visit www.bouncebackfrombetrayal.com.
About Dr. Daniela Roher
Dr. Daniela Roher lives in Arizona where she has a private psychotherapy practice working with individuals and couples who want to achieve their goals of living more fulfilled lives.
To know more about Dr. Daniela, visit her website, www.droherphd.com.
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